Category: Identity

It\’s impressive at 21, cute at 24, kinda sad and a let down at 27, and completely dull and pathetic at 30. Time to come up with a new plan. \”Dog fostering housewife\” is all I\’ve come up with so far....

1. Go to Career Cruising, www.careercruising.com 2. Put in Username: nycareers and Password: landmark. 3. Take their \”Career Matchmaker\” questions. 4. Post the results 5. Put the careers you have seriously...

After spending nine hours down at the bars, seven of which was working, I realized that I have changed a hell of a lot in the past two years. In terms of personality, I\’m far more out going, for example. In fact, I feel...

My experiences with Vlad the Impaler taught me that what I had previously thought was an urban myth — the man who wants to spend his money on frivolous female upkeep (hair, nails, clothing, etc.) — actually does...

Summer Camp with Oooh and La La, by Danny Fowler, at DC\’s Crack The thing is, I\’ve spent all my life aspiring to that. Nature gipped me. I was born in a female body, when I should have been born a drag queen. I...

It\’s incredible how many people frequently accuse me of leading a double or secret life. Well, perhaps not so incredible. I\’ve always felt rather split between aspects of identity; they simply don\’t mesh,...

From various e-mails to Caesar today: Funny: When I was 20, the therapist I was seeing was trying to talk me through a break-up with a boy. I was very frustrated by the way the boy was behaving, which in my mind, was very...

Most people talk about how they’re so concerned about making a DIFFERENCE, making an IMPACT, even if it’s just on ONE person, they want to MATTER. What they’re really talking about is they want to be important. Reassured that...